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Autism-Asperger's & Sexuality: Puberty and Beyond. Jerry & Mary Newport, $21.95

Autism-Asperger's & Sexuality is a groundbreaking, personal look at the sexual challenges of those diagnosed with autism spectrum disorders. The authors share first-hand knowledge and practical advice to help guide young autistic adults and their caregivers through this often difficult but important topic.

The Facts of Life...and More: Sexuality and Intimacy for People with Intellectual Disabilities. Edited by Leslie Walker-Hirsch, $34.95

“Going beyond the facts of life, this book gives professionals candid interviews and personal anecdotes that shows how real-life couples with disabilities handle the joys and challenges of their relationships—courtship, sex, parenthood, disagreements, finances, and more. Readers will also get examples of effective sexuality education techniques and vivid case studies that illustrate key points. With this frank, thorough, and highly readable guide, professionals will better advocate for people with disabilities and help them reap the social and emotional benefits of healthy, responsible, age-appropriate sexuality.”


Girls Growing Up on the Autism Spectrum: What Parents and Professionals Should Know About the Pre-Teen and Teenage Years. Shana Nichols, with Gina Marie Moravcik & Samara Pulver Tetenbaum, $19.95

"Growing up isn't easy, and the trials and tribulations of being a teenager can be particularly confusing for girls with Autism Spectrum Disorders. This book covers all the concerns commonly faced by girls with ASDs and their parents, from periods and puberty to worries over friendships and "fitting in". The authors give candid and realistic advice on a wide range of important teenage topics.

"Providing professional perspectives alongside personal experiences from mothers, daughters and educators, this is a unique and indispensible guide for families and their daughters with ASDs, as well as the teachers and professionals who work with them."

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Hand Made Love: a Guide for Teaching About Male Masturbation. Dave Hingsburger, $55.95 (DVD format)

This book and DVD set aimed at men with developmental disabilities discusses privacy, pleasure and the realities of sharing living spaces with others. The narrator of the video talks about myths and suggests that masturbation can be a way of learning about sex, while the book discusses masturbation from the point of view of both health and pleasure.

Finger Tips: a Guide for Teaching about Female Masturbation. Dave Hingsburger & Sandra Haar, $55.95 (DVD format)

This book and DVD set is aimed at teaching women with developmental disabilities about masturbation. It also confronts typical myths about female sexuality. A gentle, positive film that is clear, graphic and dignified. The book includes a step by step photographic essay about masturbation, and the joy of private time.


Just Say Know! Understanding and Reducing the Risk of Sexual Victimization of People with Developmental Disabilities. Dave Hingsburger, $20.75

Just Say Know! offers inspiration and practical guidance for families and clinicians on the difficult subject of sexual abuse and the vulnerability of people with developmental disabilities.

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Life and Love: Positive Strategies for Autistic Adults. Zosia Zaks, $28.95

Written for adults on the spectrum and those involved — parents, spouses, friends — this book is divided into two sections: life and love. In the life section, the author describes and suggests concrete ways to deal with daily living. In the love section, the author includes a broad spectrum of suggestions for different types of relationships and weaves these together with the core concept of self-esteem.


Love, Sex and Long-Term Relationships: What People with Asperger Syndrome Really Really Want. Sarah Hendrickx, $19.95

Many people on the autism spectrum have limited knowledge of how to establish or conduct sexual relationships: drawing on extensive research with people on the autism spectrum, the book openly explores the desires, needs and preferences of people with AS in their own words. Attitudes to issues such as gender, sexual identity and infidelity are included, as well as positive advice for developing relationships and exploring options and choices for sexual pleasure.

This accessible book is an invaluable source of information and support for those with Asperger Syndrome and couples in which one or both partners has Asperger Syndrome, as well as counselors and health and social care professionals.


Making Sense of Sex: a Forthright Guide to Puberty, Sex and Relationships for People with Asperger's Syndrome. Sarah Attwood, $19.95

For people with Asperger's syndrome it can be a challenge to get to grips with the social and emotional aspects of puberty, sex and relationships. Making Sense of Sex is a thorough guide written in unambiguous language with helpful diagrams, explanations and practical advice for young people approaching puberty and beyond. This book is ideal for those who need clear, detailed explanations and direct answers to the many questions raised by puberty and sexual maturity.

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S.T.A.R.S.: a Social Skills Training Guide for Teaching Assertiveness, Relationship Skills and Sexual Awareness. Susan Heighway & Susan Kidd Webster, $22.50

Specially designed for teaching adolescents and adults with developmental disabilities, the STARS model focuses on four areas: Understanding Relationships, Social Skills Training, Sexual Awareness and Assertiveness—with the goals of promoting positive sexuality and preventing sexual abuse. Assessment tools help identify the strengths and needs of each individual, and then the activities can be catered to address specific needs. Goals and activities cover a variety of important skills:

• Building a Positive Self-Image • Making Choices • Learning Relationship-Appropriate Behaviors • Engaging in Mature Relationships • Identifying Body Parts and Understanding Their Functions • Understanding Public and Private Behavior • Understanding Sexual Feelings and Behaviors • Understanding Reproduction • Health Issues Related to Sexual Awareness • Recognizing a Situation as Potentially Unsafe • Learning to Say “No” and Using Basic Self-Protection • And many more!


Teaching Children with Down Syndrome About Their Bodies, Boundaries, and Sexuality: a Guide for Parents and Professionals. Terri Couwenhoven, $29.95

Drawing on her unique background as both a sexual educator and mother of a child with Down syndrome, the author blends factual information and practical ideas for teaching children with Down syndrome about their bodies, puberty, and sexuality. This book gives parents the confidence to speak comfortably about these sometimes difficult subjects.

In an easy-to-read, non-clinical style, the book covers relevant issues and concerns for children of all ages, as well as later issues that affect teenagers and young adults, including:

  • Anticipating and understanding puberty
  • Dealing with periods, bras for girls
  • Masturbation
  • Sharing parental values about sexuality
  • Explaining sexual relationships
  • Preventing sexual abuse
  • Understanding how Down syndrome affects puberty & fertility rates

Each chapter highlights important points with key messages, teaching activities, parental pauses, and anecdotes, all of which prompt readers to stop and consider concepts or values associated with a particular topic. The final chapter covers the special concerns of parents who are now teaching teenaged or adult children about sexuality for the first time. It concludes with extensive appendices containing invaluable teaching materials and illustrations of body parts and functions.


The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: for All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain and Illness. Miriam Kaufman, Cory Silverberg and Fran Odette. $25.50

For everyone, men and women of all ages and sexual identities, The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability shows you everything you need to know to create a sex life that works for you! Includes:

  • The "nuts and bolts" of sex - anatomy, orgasm, masturbation and more
  • How to deal with pain, fatigue and other physical problems during sex
  • Finding partners and how to talk to partners about your disability
  • How to discuss sex with physicians and other health care providers
  • Safer sex solutions
  • Plus an extensive collection of sex and disability resources including books, websites and organizations

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Resources for Families & Professionals

Asperger's Syndrome and Sexuality: from Adolescence through Adulthood. Isabelle Henault, $29.95

Autism-Asperger's and Sexuality. Jerry & Mary Newport, $21.95

Developing Personal Safety Skills in Children with Disabilities.  Freda Briggs, $59.95

Enabling Romance: a Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships for the Disabled. Ken Kroll & Erica Levy Klein, $24.95

The Facts of Life ... and More: Sexuality and Intimacy for People with Intellectual Disabilities. Edited by Leslie Walker-Hirsch, $34.95

Finger Tips: a Guide for Teaching about Female Masturbation. Dave Hingsburger & Sandra Haar, $55.95 (DVD format)

Girls Growing Up on the Autism Spectrum: What Parents and Professionals Should Know About the Pre-Teen and Teenage Years. Shana Nichols, with Gina Marie Moravcik & Samara Pulver Tetenbaum, $19.95

Hand Made Love: a Guide for Teaching About Male Masturbation. Dave Hingsburger, $55.95 (DVD format)

I Openers: Parents Ask Questions About Sexuality and Children with Developmental Disabilities. Dave Hingsburger, $10.00

Just Say Know! Understanding and Reducing the Risk of Sexual Victimization of People with Developmental Disabilities. Dave Hingsburger, $20.75

Life and Love: Positive Strategies for Autistic Adults. Zosia Zaks, $28.95

Love, Sex and Long-Term Relationships: What People with Asperger Syndrome Really Really Want. Sarah Hendrickx, $19.95

Making Sense of Sex: a Forthright Guide to Puberty, Sex and Relationships for People with Asperger's Syndrome. Sarah Attwood, $19.95

Sexuality and Disability. Maddie Blackburn, et al. $52.95

Sexuality: Your Sons and Daughters with Intellectual Disabilities. Karin Melberg Schwier & Dave Hingsburger, $30.95

Sexuality and Women with Learning Disabilities.  Michelle McCarthy, $44.95

S.T.A.R.S. a Social Skills Training Guide for Teaching Assertiveness, Relationship Skills and Sexual Awareness. Susan Heighway & Susan Kidd Webster, $22.50

Taking Care of Myself: a Hygiene, Puberty and Personal Curriculum for Young People with Autism. Mary Wrobel, $26.95

Teaching Children with Down Syndrome about Their Bodies, Boundaries and Sexuality: a Guide for Parents and Professionals. Terri Couwenhoven, $29.95

The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability for All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain and Illness. Miriam Kaufman, Cory Silverberg & Fran Odette. $25.50

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