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And Baby Makes 4. Judith Benjamin & Judith Freeman, $16.95
This delightful book is about a child with 2 moms who is expecting a sibling. Written for gay and lesbian families, the book is also a wonderful addition for parents and schools interested in having books about non-traditional families on their shelves. |
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And Baby
Makes More: Known Donors, Queer Parents and Our Unexpected
Families. Edited
by Susan Goldberg & Chlöe Brushwood Rose, $19.95 
A quirky, funny, and occasionally heartbreaking
collection of personal essays, this book offers an intimate look
at the relative risks and unexpected rewards of queer, do-it-yourself
baby-making, and the ways in which families are formed in the
process. The contributors — donors, biological and non-bio parents,
and their children — offer provocative, nuanced insights
into what it means to be or to use a known donor, and how queer
families are being re-conceived to include new roles, new rules,
and kinship ties that transcend biology. |
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Between
Mom and Jo. Julie Anne Peters, $22.99
Nick has a three-legged dog named Lucky,
some pet fish, and two moms who think he's the greatest kid ever.
And he happens to think he has the greatest Moms ever, but everything
changes when his birth mom and her partner Jo start to have marital
problems. Suddenly, Nick is in the middle, and instead of having
two Moms to turn to for advice, he has no one. Nick's emotional
struggle to redefine his relationships with his parents will remind
readers that a family's love can survive even the most difficult
times. |
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Buying
Dad: One Woman's Search for the Perfect Sperm Donor. Harlyn
Aizley, $21.95
What do two nice Jewish girls do when
they want to start a family? They can marry two nice Jewish boys,
or if they happen to be lesbians, they can buy sperm online from
California. Buying Dad is a hilarious, edgy, first-person
chronicle of a woman engaged in her alternative family planning
experience. The journey unfolds within the context of her relationship
with her female partner, her mother's cancer diagnosis, the threat
of her own possible infertility, and finally pregnancy itself. Aizley's
wry voice and candid prose embrace this confluence of major life
events with the humor and wisdom that make Buying Dad accessible
to any woman who has ever considered ending a lifetime of sleep-filled
nights by beginning a lifetime of motherhood. |
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Christian, the Hugging Lion. Justin Richardson & Peter Parnell, $21.99
From the moment Ace and John brought Christian the lion cub home from a London department store, they knew they had created a special family. But Christian soon grew too big to live with them so Ace and John flew Christian to Africa to live with other lions. A year later they went to visit. Would Christian remember them? |
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Confessions
of the Other Mother: Nonbiological Lesbian Moms Tell All!
Harlyn Aizley, editor, $20.95
A lively collection of true tales that
illuminate and celebrate lesbian parenting from the nonbiological
mother's perspective, Confessions of the Other Mother is
an exciting collection of personal stories by women who are creating
new parenting roles, redefining motherhood, and reshaping our view
of two-parent families. This candid peek into a previously unexamined
side of lesbian parenting sheds light on the many facets of motherhood,
offering gay and straight readers alike a deeper understanding of
what it means to love and parent in the twenty-first century. |
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Daddy,
Papa and Me. Lesléa
Newman, illustrated by Carol Thompson, $10.95
Rhythmic text and warm illustrations show a toddler spending
the day with its daddies. From hide-and-seek to dress-up, then
bath time and a kiss goodnight, this sweet boardbook shows that
there is no limit to what a loving family can do together. |
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Families
Like Mine: Children of Gay Parents Tell It Like It Is.
Abigail Garner, $17.99
Drawing on a decade of community organizing, and interviews with
more than fifty grown sons and daughters of LGBT parents, Abigail
Garner addresses such topics as coming out to children, facing
homophobia at school, co-parenting with ex-partners, the impact
of AIDS, and the children's own sexuality. Both practical and deeply
personal, Families Like Mine provides an invaluable insider's
perspective for LGBT parents, their families, and their allies. |
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Families
of Value: Personal Profiles of Pioneering Lesbian and Gay Parents.
Robert Bernstein, $20.50
Although many attitudes are changing, gay
and lesbian parents and their children need protection and support
as the heated cultural battle over same-sex unions continues to escalate.
Families of Value offers a poignant defense of families with
same-sex parents, and it does so primarily through the powerful use
of real-life examples. Robert Bernstein, author of the acclaimed Straight
Parents, Gay Children, presents intimate portraits of pioneer
families with gay and lesbian parents who are leading the charge in
the struggle to bring about social change. Their unique stories, in
turn hard-hitting and affecting, portray the resistance these brave
parents have faced, their views of the current cultural climate and,
most importantly, the intense passion and dedication that they have
devoted to raising sound, healthy, and well-adjusted children.
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Gay Couple’s Journey through Surrogacy: Intended Fathers.
Michael Menichiello, $18.95
A deeply personal account of the trials
and tribulations of the surrogacy journey, A Gay Couple’s Experience
with Surrogacy is the inspiring tale of a couple fiercely wanting
to become parents. This is the moving true story of a gay couple’s
decision to have their child through a surrogate mother. With humor
and emotion, the author traces their intense experience from the
initial decision to have a child through surrogacy on through the
entire pregnancy and birth. Chronicling this couple’s no-holds-barred
account of the emotional toll, the legal matters, the financial
concerns, and the ultimate fulfillment of parenting a child, author
Michael Menichiello has written a touching memoir that reveals the
kinds of challenges that face gay and lesbian couples who may be
considering either adoption or surrogacy.
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Gay Dads:
a Celebration of Fatherhood. David Strah & Susanna Margolis,
with photos by Kris Timken, $22.50
Gay Dads: a Celebration of Fatherhood
includes twenty-five personal accounts from men describing their
unique journeys to fatherhood and the struggles and successes they
have experienced as they raise their children. For most of the men
featured in this book, parenthood did not come easily, but the rewards
— as you will learn — are immeasurable. |
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In Our
Mothers’ House. Patricia
Polacco, $20.00 (ages 8 and up)
Here is a story of a home full of love and the passage of time. |
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Knock
Yourself Up: a Tell-All Guide to Becoming a Single Mom.
Louise Sloan, $19.00
In this honest and often hilarious guide, Louise Sloan shares
the details of her journey to single motherhood (including cyber-stalking
an anonymous sperm donor, dealing with exploding semen vials, and
being mistaken for a horse breeder) as well as the experiences
of a diverse range of women. Addressing topics such as coping with
loneliness, financial struggles, complex reactions of family members,
and more, Knock Yourself Up covers the emotional and practical
issues and provides the kind of intimate answers you are looking
for.
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Lesbian
Motherhood: Stories of Becoming. Amy Hequembourg, $18.50
Lesbian Motherhood: Stories of Becoming
analyzes the personal stories of 40 lesbian mothers to discover
the complex ways their sense of self is constructed in the current
legal, political, and social climate. These intimate narratives
are examined by using Gilles Deleuze and Felix Guattari’s conceptual
framework to understand subjectivities by focusing on the many flexible
lines of movement that constitute subjectivities, or ’becomings.’
This unique source reveals deep insight into a lesbian’s construction
of self through her stories about her own sexuality, parenting,
and other experiences in becoming a mother.
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The Lesbian Parenting Book: a Guide
to Creating Families and Raising Children, Second Edition. D.
Merilee Clunis & G. Dorsey Green, $24.50
The Lesbian Parenting Book has
been updated to reflect the contemporary cultural and political
landscape, as well as current trends in parenting. This practical
and extensive guide covers topics from how to get pregnant to coping
with today's teens. |

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Molly’s
Family. Nancy Garden, illustrated by Sharon Wooding, $18.50
The members of Ms. Marston's kindergarten
class are cleaning and decorating their room for the upcoming open
school night. Molly and Tommy work on drawing pictures to put on
the walls. Molly draws her family: Mommy, Mama Lu, and her puppy,
Sam. But when Tommy looks at her picture, he tells her it's not
of a family. "You can't have a mommy and a mama," he says. Molly
doesn't know what to think; no one else in her class has two mothers.
Molly's dilemma, sensitively explored in words and art, shows readers
that even if a family is different from others, it can still be
happy, loving, and real. |
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Mom and
Mum are Getting Married! Ken Setterington, illustrated by Alice
Priestley, $14.95
When Rosie finds out that her two mothers
are planning to get married, she has only one worry — will she get
to be a flower girl? A joyful celebration of love in a changing
world. |
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Mommy,
Mama and Me. Lesléa
Newman, illustrated Carol Thompson, $10.95
Delightful rhymes and affectionate
illustrations with universal appeal show a toddler spending
the day with its mommies. From hide-and-seek to dress-up, then
bath time and a kiss goodnight, this charming boardbook shares
the loving bond between same-sex parents and their children. |
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The New
Essential Guide to Lesbian Conception, Pregnancy, and Birth.
Stephanie Brill, $27.95
Thoroughly revised and updated, The New Essential Guide to
Lesbian Conception, Pregnancy, and Birth is a complete resource
for women embarking on this life-changing journey. In addition to
helping you create a plan and timeline for conception, author Stephanie
Brill covers the most up-to-date developments in conception and
pregnancy.
Sharing tried-and-true advice and the experiences of other parents,
Brill walks you through conception to early babyhood. Warm and accessible,
this indispensable handbook will help you build the family you’ve
always wanted.
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Queering Reproduction: Achieving Pregnancy in the Age of
Technoscience. Laura Mamo, $28.95
Reflecting on the issues facing lesbians
who become parents through assisted reproductive technologies, Laura
Mamo explores questions about the legal rights of co-parents, concerns
about the genetic risks of choosing an anonymous sperm donor, and
the ways decisions to become parents affect sexual and political
identities. In doing so, she investigates how lesbians navigate
the medical system with its requisite range of fertility treatments,
diagnostic categories, and treatment trajectories. Combining moving
narratives and insightful analysis, Queering Reproduction
reveals how medical technology reconfigures social formations, individual
subjectivity, and notions of kinship. |
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She Looks Just Like You: a Memoir of (Nonbiological Lesbian) Motherhood. Amie Klempnauer Miller, $30.95
After ten years of talking about children, two years of trying to conceive, and one shot of donor sperm for her partner, Amie Miller was about to become a mother. Or something like that. Part love story, part comedy, part quest, She Looks Just Like You is a candid memoir and a much-needed cultural roadmap to what it means to become a parent, even when the usual categories do not fit. |
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Tale of Two Daddies. Vanita
Oelschlager, illustrated by Kristin Blackwood & Mike Blanc,
$9.95
Beautifully illustrated and fun, A Tale of Two Daddies is a little love story about a girl and her Daddy and Poppa. |
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Who's
Your Mama? The Unsung Voices of Women and Mothers.
Yvonne Bynoe, Editor, $21.50
While most books about motherhood center
on the experiences of affluent, married white women, Who's Your
Mama focuses on the voices, perspectives, and complexities that
are most often left out of this dialogue. From the adoption process
for a gay couple, a feminist juggling the roles of activist and mother,
to a mother's celebration of her own vibrant sexuality, the book
explores the intersection between motherhood and the facets of the
authors' lives, which include race, class, sexuality, politics and
personal tragedy. Who's Your Mama offers the perspectives
of women from all cross-sections of society who are actively engaged
in crafting identities and family structures that speak practically
to their personal beliefs, intimate relationships, and socio-economic
realities. |
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The
Wonder of You: a Book for Celebrating Baby’s First Year.
Nancy Tillman, $21.95
This is the perfect gift to welcome the
little ones in your life. The Wonder of You celebrates milestones
and creates memories in this exquisite and fully inclusive baby
book.
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Complete Booklist
And Baby Makes More: Known Donors, Queer
Parents and Our Unexpected Families. Edited
by Susan Goldberg & Chlöe Brushwood Rose, $19.95
Buying Dad: One Woman’s Search
for the Perfect Sperm Donor. Harlyn Aizley, $21.95
The Complete Lesbian & Gay Parenting Guide.
Arlene Istar Lev, $20.00
Confessions of the Other Mother: Nonbiological
Lesbian Moms Tell All! Harlyn Aizley, editor, $20.95
A Donor Insemination Guide,
Written By and for Lesbian Women. Marie Mohler and Lacy Frazer, $21.95
Families Like Mine: Children of Gay Parents
Tell It Like It Is. Abigail Garner, $17.99
Families of Value: Personal Profiles of Pioneering
Lesbian and Gay Parents. Robert Bernstein, $20.50
Fatherhood for Gay Men: an Emotional and Practical Guide to Becoming a Gay Dad.
Kevin McGarry, $16.50
For Lesbian Parents: Your Guide to Helping
Your Family Grow Up Happy, Healthy and Proud. Suzanne
Johnson & Elizabeth O’Connor, $17.50
A Gay Couple’s Journey through Surrogacy: Intended
Fathers. Michael Menichiello, $18.95
Gay Dads: a Celebration of
Fatherhood. David Strah, $22.50
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Gay Marriage, Real Life: Ten
Stories of Love and Family. Michelle Bates Deakin, $18.95
Gay Parents/Straight Schools:
Building Communication and Trust. Virginia Casper & Steven B. Schultz,
$29.95
Growing Up in a Lesbian Family: Effects on
Child Development. Fiona Tasker & Susan Golombok, $30.95
Knock Yourself Up: a Tell-All Guide to Becoming
a Single Mom. Louise Sloan, $19.00
Lesbian and Gay Fostering and Adoption: Extraordinary
Yet Ordinary. Stephen Hicks & Janet McDermott,
(eds.) $39.95
Lesbian and Gay Parenting Handbook: Creating
and Raising Our Families. April Martin, $26.00
Lesbian Motherhood: Stories of Becoming. Amy
Hequembourg, $18.50
The Lesbian Parenting Book: a Guide to Creating
Families and Raising Children, Second Edition. D. Merilee Clunis and G.
Dorsey Green, $24.50
Lesbian Step Families: an Ethnography of Love.
Janet Wright, $51.95
Love Makes a Family: Portraits of Lesbian,
Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Parents and Their Families. Edited by Peggy
Gillespie, $35.95
The New Essential Guide to Lesbian Conception,
Pregnancy, and Birth. Stephanie Brill, $27.95
Partnered Grief: When Gay and Lesbian Partners
Grieve. Harold Ivan Smith & Joy Johnson, $3.95
Permanent Partners: Building
Gay and Lesbian Relationships That Last, Revised Edition. Betty Berzon,
$23.50
Queering Reproduction: Achieving Pregnancy
in the Age of Technoscience. Laura Mamo, $28.95
She Looks Just Like You: a Memoir of (Nonbiological Lesbian) Motherhood. Amie Klempnauer Miller, $30.95
Sons Talk about Their Gay
Fathers: Life Curves. Andrew Gottlieb, $26.95
The Ultimate Guide to Pregnancy for Lesbians:
Tips and Techniques from Conception through Birth. Rachel Pepper, $22.95
Who's Your Mama? The Unsung Voices of Women
and Mothers. Yvonne Bynoe, Editor, $21.50
The Wonder of You: a Book for Celebrating Baby’s
First Year. Nancy Tillman, $21.95
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Resources
for * Kids & ** Teens
*ABC a Family Alphabet Book.
Bobbie Combs, $11.95
*And Baby Makes 4. Judith Benjamin & Judith Freeman, $16.95
*And Tango Makes Three. Justin Richardson &
Peter Parnell, Illustrated by Henry Cole, $19.99
*Asha's Mums. Rosamund Elwin
& Michele Paulse, $9.95
*Best Best Colors. Eric Hoffman, $15.95
**Between
Mom and Jo. Julie Anne Peters, $22.99
*Christian, the Hugging Lion. Justin Richardson & Peter Parnell, $21.99
*The Daddy Machine. Johnny
Valentine, $15.50
*Daddy, Papa and Me. Lesléa
Newman, illustrated by Carol Thompson, $10.95
*Daddy's Roommate. Michael Willhoite, $13.50
*Felicia’s Favorite Story. Lesléa Newman, $11.95
*Heather Has Two Mommies. Lesléa Newman, $17.95
**How It Feels to Have a Gay or Lesbian Parent:
a Book by Kids for Kids of All Ages. Judith Snow, $43.95
*How My Family Came to Be:
Daddy, Papa and Me. Andrew Aldrich, $26.95
*In Our Mothers’ House. Patricia
Polacco, $20.00 (ages 8 and up)
*King & King & Family. Linda de Haan
& Stern Nijland, $18.95
*Molly’s Family. Nancy Garden, illustrated
by Sharon Wooding, $18.50
*Mom and Mum are Getting Married! Ken Setterington,
$14.95
*Mommy, Mama and Me. Lesléa
Newman, illustrated Carol Thompson, $10.95
*Monicka’s Papa is Tall. Heather Jopling, illustrated
by Allyson Demoe, $14.95 (4 to 7)
*123 a Family Counting Book. Bobbie Combs,
$11.95
*One Dad, Two Dads, Brown Dad, Blue Dads. Johnny
Valentine, $10.95
*Ryan’s Mom is Tall. Heather Jopling, illustrated
by Allyson Demoe, $14.95 (ages 4 to 7)
*Saturday is Pattyday. Leslea
Newman, $8.95
*A Tale of Two Daddies. Vanita
Oelschlager, illustrated by Kristin Blackwood & Mike Blanc, $9.95
*Who’s In a Family? Robert
Skutch, $10.95
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